How to say no to marriage?
If you have some second thoughts in mind just tell your family that it didn’t work this time may be you need another meeting to know the other person. After the final meeting you should forward your last marriage decision.
Always keep things straight and subtle while taking final decision on marriage. Put forward one’s thought and decision in a very polite and decent way, give the answer without hurting others sentiments.
No one is perfect we are humans and we are in common so before declaring decision one should hold other’s emotion on top priority. Instead of being rude and blunt one should show excuses which are valid for marriage decision yet harmless.
No offence: While saying no, one should never criticize or pin point others lacking qualities. One’s sole purpose should be the polite rejection despite of hurting others intention.
Few safest excuses are:
- Somewhere things dint workout
- Horoscope dint match
- Compatibility mismatch.
Considerations while saying yes:
Final decision: Once the marriage decision made, it should not be changed. It should be made by taking proper time and mind.
Family and friend support: Today it’s completely a girl/boy decision to select the bride/groom for him/her. But taking family and friend support while making the marriage decision can be great help to avoid any misconceptions in marriage decisions.
Complete information: After knowing the person completely one should take the final decision for marriage. Rather than going on looks, one should analyze on the bases of what someone is looking around in his/her would be life partner.